I have been challenged by a fellow member of the Facebook group "Christian Bloggers Network" to blog on the following questions: What makes a great pastor/priest/minister? What makes a great church?
As a woman who is now formally in the process towards ordination, it occurs to me that I better know my answers to these two questions before I ever am called "Reverend" and hold the awesome responsibility of leading a parish. So here goes...
What makes a great pastor/priest/minister:
- Love of God and love of people
- Sense of humor
- Daily personal prayer life/devotional time/spiritual centering
- Commitment to serving God and the world
- Ability to admit/share/display the fact that s/he is just as human, searching, doubting, and spiritual as each member of the congregation
- Knowledge that s/he should be humble as an equal child of God to the parishioners, but also be able to claim the responsibility/power bestowed upon her/him at ordination
- Good boundary setting
- Listening skills--to people, and to the Spirit
- Courage to try new things and step out of her/his--and the congregation's--comfort zone, and the wisdom to know when it's just not working/ not the right time/ people aren't ready
- Enthusiasm
- Dedication to constantly be expanding knowledge, skills, and experience
What makes a great church:
- Love of God and each other
- Compassion
- Diversity of culture, socio-economic status, background, age, and point of view
- Acceptance that diversity will sometimes cause difficulties, and knowledge that it's worth it anyway
- Commitment to serving God, each other, and the world
- Listening to each other
- Enough money to keep the roof repaired, fund good programming, and give to others, but not so much that the church forgets Jesus' message
- Welcoming of newcomers without forgetting to acknowledge those who've been there "forever"
- Good cooks (wink, wink)
- Lots of prayer
- Enthusiasm
- Ability to be led...and to lead
- Dedication to constantly expanding knowledge, skills, and experiences
I encourage all of my readers who are in a church community to think about these questions yourselves. You may be surprised by your answers. Oh, and if you think I forgot something, please let me know!
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I am the 'fellow member of the Facebook group' and wonderful work on the above post. I am getting ordained this coming sat and some time after this I intend to write a blog post at my place: www.brownblog.info that brings together all the suggestions from the various discussions on facebook and on my own blog. And I fully intend to quote you Beth! Nice work.
ReplyDeleteAlso I have had a very good laugh as the Google ad on your blog was:
ReplyDelete"Free instant ordination: Be a legally ordained clergy person." And when you follow the link, there is a button that you can click that says: 'Ordain me.'
LOL ahh man, all the hard work, the years of wrestling... and all I needed to do was click a button.
Is there a more compelling illustration of the shallowness of some parts of our culture! Lol. Love it.